Pop quiz! Lots of women who've been there and done that say it's a welcome addition to their sexual repertoire. But just like you must walk before you can run, you must have some sort of anal foreplay before you go for the full monty of anal sex. Or, you know, you can do butt play and leave it at that forever, because it's your booty and you make the rules.

If you've ever asked people how they feel about anal sex , you already know that's a divided topic. Wild myths and societal taboos tend to do that. But isn't it fun to dispel myths and engage in as many taboos as possible? I think so. Also anal sex feels really good. That may have something to do with the fact that people with vulvas who have anal often and enjoy it , just might be a little bit more open-minded and adventurous. Anal sex feels different for everyone.

Talk to your partner about the prospect. Also, the "accidentally-slipping-it-in" move is an asshole thing to do. You can cause serious damage by pulling a stunt like that. Considering the nightmare that can come out of there after a night at a Mexican buffet, I can see how people would think that. It makes clean-up that much easier.

Who knows, it might even become your favorite. While the prostate and P-Spot is widely associated as being known for the reason why butt stuff feels so good for prostate and penis-having folks, there are plenty of valid reasons why anal could still be pleasurable for non-prostate having women as well. Remember, a pleasurable experience can be just as much mental as physical! If you're turned on by taboos and the power play experience anal can entail, that's valid too!