You only need to make a few tweaks to enjoy more orgasms from these common sex positions. When people are looking to get more pleasure out of their sex life, there's one thing that usually comes to mind: throwing out common sex positions in favor of more acrobatic ones. But there's no need to. If the most common sex positions work for you, then keep them in rotation—and consider making a few tiny tweaks to help send your pleasure through the roof.

Most of us learn about a very narrow version of sex that feels great for men but tends to leave women's pleasure out of the picture. Our culture doesn't spend much time talking about vaginas or female pleasure, so even women themselves are sometimes uncertain about how their parts work, what feels good in bed, and how to have orgasms during sex. Here are some tried-and-trued ways to make sex better for her, straight from a sex therapist. To make sex better for women, create an environment where she knows she has time to focus and relax. Remove all distractions and responsibilities, including work, children, TV, and any daily errands. Check in advance to see how you can support her to make sure these things are done so she can focus for an hour or two or a whole weekend just on herself.

But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off-limits, and all questions remain anonymous.

Three simple letters that elicit myriad thoughts and feelings. Sex has the potential to involve all of the senses, turn us on, happen solo or with a partner, allow us the opportunity to give and to receive, and be incredibly pleasurable. Sometimes pain or discomfort is to blame. Often with subtle adjustments, sex can feel and be a lot better.