Are you unhappy with how much attention he now pays to you? Do you think that at least part of the problem is that he is paying too much attention to pornography or other women? Has he admitted to you that he masturbates too much? Would you be willing to give up intercourse with him, at least in the short term, if you got a lot more attention from him, including a lot more oral sex?
Pinch his nipples… -Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss Your nipple. Let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg… -Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and let him think about what else You might do… -Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste the crotch of Your panties…get more promises… -Blindfold him and make him lick You to several orgasms. Use a dildo or a vibrator… -Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy You with it. Do it so his nose presses between Your ass cheeks. So you are now one of the millions of women who learned she has a husband with fantasies about you having sex with other men. Welcome to our club.
Please let us know what you think. My wife would appreciate you voting with your comments on our blog post. Maybe you can convince her to save it for me only, if I help out with the upkeep.